Sit down with Joe and Vivian to discuss the situation?  

   Proceed by addressing the following questions and concerns.

1. Is something wrong with Vivian (i.e. has she been sick,

    problems with a family member, car trouble)?

 2. Is Vivian not happy with the contract; has she been paid for

     her services up to this point?

 3. Initially, Vivian frequented many of the same places Joe 

     wanted to go (i.e. the bank, grocery store, drove near Joe's

     job almost every day). Has something changed with Vivian's

     routine making the transportation more difficult?

 4. Because it took quite a while to find Vivian, you really

     don't want to lose her as a transportation option. However,

     perhaps you will need to look for additional resources to

     get Joe to where he needs to go, in case Vivian can not

     always be available.

 5. Sometimes Joe gets frustrated and yells at people

     when he's mad, how could you help prepare Joe for figuring

     out a good way to talk with Vivian about his needs?

Ginny has several friends and cousins around her age who

   are leaving Home. Are any of them in her Circle of Support

   who could help present the case for 'being like everyone

   else' as well as to help Ginny understand how her parents

   feel?

Although negotiation and compromise can often seem like

   the same thing, what could be gained and what could be lost

   by making concessions?

If parents make the decision and Ginny stays at home, what

   does it cost Ginny? Is this a decision her parents are making

   out of fear or is there a real threat to Ginny's safety?

It is not necessarily your role to be the peacemaker. Review

   the role of the Support Broker and identify ways to advocate

   for Ginny without compromising her safety. Make sure she

   has all the information needed to make her decisions, and

   encouraging her to be responsible in this new stage in her

   life.